July 20, 2025: Death, Loss, and Other Disappointments

Rev. Dr. Roger Jones
When we lose people through death, or experience decline or setbacks in our own lives, it’s hard. It sets us on a path with vulnerability and surprise emotions. And while it can feel so lonely to go through loss, it’s one of the most common human experiences. Today’s sermon draws from Five True Things by Buddhist writer and psychotherapist David Richo.
Rev. Dr. Roger Jones is a co-minister at the UU Society of Sacramento, where he began in 2008. A native of central Indiana, he attended Indiana University, Meadville Lombard Theological School, and Pacific School of Religion.
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Ringing of the World Bell
Greeting
Erica Whichello, Worship Associate
Congregational Prelude
#361 Enter, Rejoice, and Come In
Welcome & Announcements
Anabel Watson, Connections Coordinator
Land Acknowledgement
Lighting the Chalice Flame
Erica Whichello
Jason Michálek and Sapphire Perez
Time for All Ages
“What Do You Do with a Problem?” by Kobi Yamada
Dr. Stephanie Kimball, Director of Lifespan Religious Education
Musical Interlude
Kim Carballo, piano
Pastoral Prayer and Meditation
Rev. Dr. Roger Jones
Hymn
#15 The Lone, Wild Bird
Dedication of Offering
Erica Whichello
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Offertory
“Dark Sea” by Steve Pollitt, harmonized by Courage Barda
Cloud 7 and Kim Carballo, piano
Reading
"For the Anniversary of My Death" by W. S. Merwin
Gift of Music
“Blessed Spirit,” music by Anton Bruckner, words by Steve Pollitt
Cloud 7
Andrew Appel, Dexter Edge, Carol Marks, Steve Pollitt, Susie Sullivan, Anabel Watson, Licia Weber
Sermon
Death, Loss, and Other Disappointments
Rev. Dr. Roger Jones
Closing Hymn
#6 Just As Long As I Have Breath
Benediction
Choral Benediction
“For All Who Seek God/Surround Me Alway” music by Deborah Phelps, Courage Barda, arr. Pollitt, words by Doss/Macklin/Barda
Cloud 7
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